Nov 11, 2009

Worth-It Wednesday: Living Beneath Our Means

Nov
11
2009
Wednesday

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One of the lessons that my mom drilled into me growing up was to always live beneath my means. My parents practiced what they preached and I have seen the many ways that it blessed my family growing up.

As an adult (am I really an adult? I still don’t feel like one yet!), I was introduced to Dave Ramsey, who put a whole system to what my parents had taught me for years. Dave’s book The Total Money Makeover has been a huge help to those who are trying to live beneath their means.

Still, even with the great example my parents set, we made several mistakes in our early years of marriage that caused us to go into debt and made it difficult for us to climb out of it. Thankfully though, we are now out of debt and have been able to apply these principles to start saving (instead of just working our way out of debt)!

So what can living beneath your means look like? Here are a few ideas that come to my mind, but it will look different for everyone (remember, these are ideas, not set-in-stone rules!) :)

  • Skipping out on the big vacation in lieu of a more localized one (you’re kids will still remember it with joy & you’ll be out much less cash!)
  • Being able to afford a more expensive house, but getting one for a lower price than the mortgage company says you can “afford.”
  • Being able to afford going out to eat a few times a week, but choosing to only go out once (or not at all).
  • Staying away from the the mall! Whenever I go to the mall I feel the pull to buy things, but when I stay away the pull stays away too! :)
  • Remembering that you can get a percentage off everything you buy and still go more into debt. Make a budget and stick to it religiously.
  • Not making impulse buys! If there’s something that I think I need (or want) I put it on a list and leave it there for a while so that I can think about it and come back to it later to see if it’s something I still need to get.
  • Putting all the money that you are NOT spending into getting out of debt or savings! Easy enough, right?

You can get more ideas as well as a step by step plan from Dave’s book The Total Money Makeover.

Living beneath our means is WORTH-IT for us… do you think it’s worth-it as well?

I only put a few ideas up here & I’d love to hear more from you guys! What do you think? What are some ways that we can live beneath our means so that we can save and give more?


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This is great! It's so easy to get to the mindset that if you make more money you can spend more money, which I've been guilty of in the past. If we all lived as far beneath our means as we could and keep a good quality of life, we'd all be better off. It's much more peaceful to know that you don't have to rush out and spend money because you have it, and the mall isn't going anywhere! My biggest tip is also one of yours. Stay home, and the temptation stays away--as long as you don't turn on QVC! Just kidding, at least for me!

This is a great post!! We can all practice living with in or below our means. I have to think about God's principles and the 10 Commandments. One that really sticks in my mind is "Thy shall not covet". In today's society, everyone "feels" the need to out-do their neighbor (even tho none of them can actually "afford it" ). We, too have made our share of mistakes along the way and I won't elaborate, but, in about 4 months we will only have our mortgage left to pay off (and that's about 5 years-I just hope we have enough time to do so). We haven't had a car payment in 11 years and it feels great to not have that "noose" around our necks. I love Dave Ramsey's books and we listen to him on the radio and/or T.V. any chance we get. Being self-employed has it's challenges and we do use ONE credit card to pay for fuel/gas. I know this goes against everything Dave says, but, it is PAID in full each and every month! I use CASH for our groceries and have a certain amount to work with. That being said, whenever we get dollar bills in our change, those are saved (NO matter what) for our "rainy" day fund. I even stash any extra $5's when I can. A person would be amazed at how fast those dollars can add up. I don't like being a "slave" to the bank and it will feel so good to be debt free! Good Luck all. With self control, you too, can be debt free. Thanks, Rachel for all you do!

@Lavonne, Yes, I think coveting is definitely the biggest reason why people go more and more into debt. "Keeping up with the Jones'" is such an accepted aspect of our society that many people don't even think twice about what it does to their marriages (& children). It reminds me of the children's book that we read to our kids by Max Lucado called "You Are Mine." In the book the characters (Wemmicks) all start collecting boxes and balls and compare themselves to everyone else to see who has the most. It's a great book with a great lesson!

That is a great post. I think alot of people in the coupon world "get it" but people need to learn that is ok to not have the newest and greatest. We prefer to live debt free and have our savings and the peace of mind it gives you. They say money is a huge cause of divorce but maybe if you live below your means and "act your wage" you wouldn't have the fights about money or lack of. When you have savings and emergency fund if the stove quits it stinks, but its not the end of the world because the security is there.

Great tips! My tip is to shop around. Just because you NEED to buy something, doesn't mean you need to pay full price!

Definitely worth it! Budgets are soooo important. Great post, girl!

Oh girl, I *loathe* the mall! Just don't go there. And you know I am a total Dave fan. :) I am a big believer in "acting our wage". My biggest tip? Cut up the plastic. Just don't even have the temptation of a credit card in your wallet. Definitely worth it!

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